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They call it “doggystyle”. It’s the sexual position where a woman bends over while on her knees, positioning herself on all fours, while a man penetrates
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Sunday, July 13, 2025 by Phil
What does this much-vaunted idea of humility entail? Is there room for a Christian self-love or self-esteem? Or are we all depraved and worthless?
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Thursday, July 10, 2025 by Phil
Road head (or "road h" for short, for some reason) is when a man is driving while a woman performs oral sex on him. Not very safe, but...
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Monday, July 7, 2025 by Phil
Imagine I’m being a typical worker bee at the office, typing away at some droll report or reading an email from a client when an instant message from my wife pops up.
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Friday, July 4, 2025 by Phil
Seeing a wide grin erupt onto my daughter's face as she holds her ball aloft like a trophy, I wonder if I'm missing something.
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Tuesday, July 1, 2025 by Phil
I swim about as well as an exhausted, overweight, two-legged basset hound with a pulled hammy. Yet I love going to the pool with my wife. Why is that? The obvious answer is
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Saturday, June 28, 2025 by Phil
The New Testament speaks pretty clearly on the subject of lust being unhealthy and/or sinful. The obvious go-to Scripture for this can be found in Matthew 5:28 where Jesus
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Saturday, June 28, 2025 by Phil
You'll spend six years of your life dreaming. Do you regularly share this significant part of your life with your significant other? If not, you're missing out on some real intimacy.
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Wednesday, June 25, 2025 by Phil
Children gain a sense of stability and security when they see regular affection shared between parents.
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Sunday, June 22, 2025 by Phil
We’ve discussed before how focused I am on touch. It’s my love language, after all. So it shouldn’t come as a surprise that I actually find the science of
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Thursday, June 19, 2025 by Phil
Years ago, I was fiery evangelical. Today, I'm very much not. Did I backslide? Or did I mature? I've been wrestling with this question a lot lately.
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Sunday, June 15, 2025 by Phil
Get ready for a pinch. We each take turns with a timer, letting the other person strip all the clothes off us and hunt for our hidden speckle of green. Once the dot is found,
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Thursday, June 12, 2025 by Phil
There's a third way explicit language comes under attack, empowered by Paul's letter to the church at Ephesus. "Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth..."
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Monday, June 9, 2025 by Phil
I’ve addressed how the Bible clearly endorses rather than forbids body piercings, though as with anything else that affects our appearance (tattoos, for example), we
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Friday, June 6, 2025 by Phil
Most readers knew of PDAs before coming to this site, but what's this PDS thing? PDS is Publically Discreet Sexuality, a label I've given sexual acts that take place in public settings but are not necessarily under the public's scrutiny.
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Tuesday, June 3, 2025 by Phil
#CreativeSex #marriage
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Saturday, May 31, 2025 by Phil
As a guy, my orgasms are cheap. A dime a dozen. Two for the price of one. Try a free sample. We’ll even pay shipping and handling. In the grand scheme of things,
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Wednesday, May 28, 2025 by Phil
From yard work to dishes to sleeping all day Pajamas and t-shirts, at work and at play In all that she does I can certainly say I happily cheer for slub cotton In her eyes
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Sunday, May 25, 2025 by Phil
Our co-showers became about more than the sexual thrills of seeing each other naked, lathering up together, and rinsing off sensual suds. Soon, we often found ourselves just showering
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Thursday, May 22, 2025 by Phil
Truth #4 – I am a workmanship in the image of God. Read these verses and meditate on them. Genesis 1:27 (NIV)… So God created mankind in his own image, in the image
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Monday, May 19, 2025 by Phil