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Previously, I wrote about the precise language used in Hebrews 13:4 that offers a clearly-drawn line in how we as married couples can honor or defile our marriage bed or the
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Wednesday, August 6, 2025 by Phil
The image of her backside is tattooed firmly in my brain, and I’m happily helpless prey in this trap she’s laying. “You ready, hon?” I ask rather
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Sunday, August 3, 2025 by Phil
Truth #8 – My past is past; my now is discipline; my future doesn’t exist. The words of Jesus in Matthew 6:34 reinforce a reality we all know, at least
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Thursday, July 31, 2025 by Phil
For the whole of our relationship, I’ve been thrilled by irritating, harassing, and teasing my wife. It’s something like how a five-year-old boy pushes down a
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Monday, July 28, 2025 by Phil
I had the privilege of witnessing Chick-fil-A employee training while I mooched on their wifi and nursed their tea, and I found the process fascinating.
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Friday, July 25, 2025 by Phil
Years ago, I was having a business meeting with a self-described cowboy from northern California. He looked something like a cross between Willie Nelson and Yosemite Sam and
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Tuesday, July 22, 2025 by Phil
Truth #11 – Accountability cannot force me; it can only reinforce me. In Paul’s letter to the church in Galatia, he followed up on his instructions to carry each
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Saturday, July 19, 2025 by Phil
Last week, I related the story of how Clara exposed me to the reality of my depravity: that long ago, I actually raped her. A product of my cultural upbringing and a couple
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Wednesday, July 16, 2025 by Phil
They call it “doggystyle”. It’s the sexual position where a woman bends over while on her knees, positioning herself on all fours, while a man penetrates
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Sunday, July 13, 2025 by Phil
What does this much-vaunted idea of humility entail? Is there room for a Christian self-love or self-esteem? Or are we all depraved and worthless?
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Thursday, July 10, 2025 by Phil
Road head (or "road h" for short, for some reason) is when a man is driving while a woman performs oral sex on him. Not very safe, but...
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Monday, July 7, 2025 by Phil
Imagine I’m being a typical worker bee at the office, typing away at some droll report or reading an email from a client when an instant message from my wife pops up.
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Friday, July 4, 2025 by Phil
Seeing a wide grin erupt onto my daughter's face as she holds her ball aloft like a trophy, I wonder if I'm missing something.
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Tuesday, July 1, 2025 by Phil
I swim about as well as an exhausted, overweight, two-legged basset hound with a pulled hammy. Yet I love going to the pool with my wife. Why is that? The obvious answer is
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Saturday, June 28, 2025 by Phil
The New Testament speaks pretty clearly on the subject of lust being unhealthy and/or sinful. The obvious go-to Scripture for this can be found in Matthew 5:28 where Jesus
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Saturday, June 28, 2025 by Phil
You'll spend six years of your life dreaming. Do you regularly share this significant part of your life with your significant other? If not, you're missing out on some real intimacy.
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Wednesday, June 25, 2025 by Phil
Children gain a sense of stability and security when they see regular affection shared between parents.
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Sunday, June 22, 2025 by Phil
We’ve discussed before how focused I am on touch. It’s my love language, after all. So it shouldn’t come as a surprise that I actually find the science of
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Thursday, June 19, 2025 by Phil
Years ago, I was fiery evangelical. Today, I'm very much not. Did I backslide? Or did I mature? I've been wrestling with this question a lot lately.
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Sunday, June 15, 2025 by Phil
Get ready for a pinch. We each take turns with a timer, letting the other person strip all the clothes off us and hunt for our hidden speckle of green. Once the dot is found,
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Thursday, June 12, 2025 by Phil